🌹 Date & Time:
Saturday, 2025.06.28
15:00 – 23:00+ (doors open at 14:30)
Location: Private apartment, Berlin (details shared upon registration)
Language: English
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✨ What Is Temple Night?
Temple Night is an immersive, heart-centered gathering devoted to the exploration of conscious sensuality, intimacy, and kink. This is a space of connection — not from performance or pressure, but from presence, curiosity, and truth. It is a sober, body-positive and gender-expansive sanctuary where everyone is invited to move, rest, witness, or play in alignment with what feels good for them — and only that.
We welcome you as you are: shy or confident, quiet or expressive, kinky or simply curious. Temple is not about doing anything you should do — it’s about discovering what you want to do, what feels right, safe, and nourishing in your body and heart.
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💗 A Queer-Positive, Inclusive Space
We are a proudly queer-centered space, created and held by a team including queer, non-binary, and gender-nonconforming individuals. We celebrate freedom of expression, all gender identities and all bodies — with love, respect, and non-judgment.
This is a place where:
- Nudity is optional, but self-expression is celebrated.
- Every “yes” is sacred.
- Every “no” is honored.
- All parts of you — your joy, your shyness, your desire, your fear — are welcome.
You do not need to want to be sexual or sensual with anyone. Showing up and being in the space is enough. There will be a non-engagement space available for calming down, journaling, meditation, or simply witnessing. You are never expected to do anything outside your comfort. Practicing boundaries and learning to say “no” — or change your mind — is deeply encouraged and celebrated.
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🧭 Agreements & Guidelines
To keep this space safe, respectful, and nourishing for all, we have a few clear agreements:
• Consent is key. Always ask before initiating any contact. Wait for an enthusiastic, embodied “yes.”
• No means no. Maybe means no. Uncertainty means no.
• Don’t watch play from up close without permission. Observing someone else’s intimate moment requires their consent.
• Do not masturbate to anyone’s scene without expressed consent.
• Don’t engage in play that could result in STI transmission without full clarity, communication, and mutual agreement.
• You are 100% responsible for staying within your own boundaries.
• We are here to support you, but we cannot offer therapy. If you have trauma or strong emotional patterns that might be triggered, we encourage you to have self-support tools ready.
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☕ Opening: Cacao Ceremony
We will begin in a sacred circle with a ceremonial dose of cacao — a gentle plant medicine known to open the heart, soften the emotional body, and support deeper connection with ourselves and others.
As we drink, we’ll ground into the space with intention setting, introductions, and group agreements. This ceremony invites you to land in your body and set the tone for the rest of the evening from a place of loving awareness.
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🌀 The Facilitated Journey (15:00 – 17:25)
This part of the evening includes:
• Opening Circle: Names, pronouns, landing, agreements, and consent framework
• Connection Exercises: Playful, guided practices that invite you into presence and authentic contact
• Intro to the Wheel of Consent: Learn the powerful distinction between giving, receiving, taking, and allowing — a life-changing framework for exploring desire and boundaries
This is your chance to get out of the mind and into the body — gently, with full choice and clear facilitation. These exercises are clothed, slow, and designed to help you stay grounded while opening up to others.
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🔥 Sensual Free Flow (17:25 – 22:30)
After grounding together again, we open the room into a 5-hour free-flow space where anything from cuddling, massage, sensual/kinky touch, dancing, or simply watching becomes possible.
Key features of this space:
• Consent-based, clothes-optional, slow and mindful
• Massage and kink zones (impact play, sensory play — all consensual and containered)
• Non-engagement and quiet space always available
• Spaceholders available throughout for emotional or energetic support
• No pressure to play — your presence is your gift
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💠 Optional Workshop: Extended Wheel of Consent (17:30 – 19:30)
This powerful workshop, facilitated by Abbegail, offers a deeper dive into the Wheel of Consent model created by Dr. Betty Martin.
This extended practice includes:
• Consent games
• Guided touch awareness exercises (underwear stays on)
• Differentiating between what you want and what you’re willing to offer
• Learning to ask for what you desire
• Practicing the art of receiving — and the joy of giving
This workshop is for anyone curious about how they operate in intimacy. It often brings clarity, confidence, and surprising emotional insight. Many people leave this session with a deeper connection to their body and their truth.
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🌕 Closing Circle & Afterglow
We end the evening with a gentle closing circle to integrate, share, and offer gratitude. After that, the space softens into a cuddle nest for gentle aftercare, decompression, and connection.
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👥 Your Spaceholders
Throughout the entire evening, our dedicated spaceholders will be visible and available to support you.
Milan, Pookie, and Luna are skilled in holding space for emotion, boundaries, and energetic safety. If at any moment you feel overwhelmed, confused, or need grounding, they are here for you. You can speak to them directly and ask for any support you need. They are here to help — whether you need to debrief a moment, express a boundary, or return to your center.
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🌬️ Your Facilitator: Abbegail
Abbegail is a certified yoga and meditation teacher, a breathwork facilitator, and a professional erotic masseuse. Her work focuses on embodied intimacy, deep listening, and guiding people back to their inner wisdom through the body.
She has led Wheel of Consent workshops and holds a deep, lived understanding of consent, boundaries, and loving awareness. Her facilitation is soft yet structured, with a strong commitment to safety, depth, and joy.
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🛡️ This is not therapy — and it can still be healing
This experience is designed to support healing, awakening, and connection — but it is not a therapeutic process. If you carry trauma, please know this space may bring things up. While our team can hold space for emotional moments, we cannot take full responsibility for your process.
Please come with self-awareness, tools that help you regulate, and the willingness to care for yourself with honesty and gentleness.
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🕊️ Come As You Are
You don’t need to be confident.
You don’t need to feel sexy.
You don’t need to want anything from anyone.
Just come as you are.
This is a space of radical self-love, non-performance, and honoring truth.
Speak your “no.” Celebrate your “yes.” Rest in your body. Reclaim your joy.
We would love to meet you.
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💌 Interested in joining?
Please fill out the application form below. After you have filled in the form, we will approve if there is space for you in our event. If you get approved, we will send you an email with the link to buy your tickets and after that we will send you our location. This is a curated space with limited capacity. You will receive full event details upon confirmation.
This does mean we cannot guarantee that you will be selected. We try to be as inclusive and diverse as possible.
Ticket price: 49 EUR
With love and excitement,
Abbegail, Milan, Pookie and Luna
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